Liar Liar Pants On Fire

Hey y'all,

    So, I have learned a very valuable lesson. From this lesson, I have learned and grown as a person, but unfortunately, it has cause the loss of the trust required for a full friendship. There are a few things on this planet that I consider to be unforgivable.

Lying

Abusing

Cheating

    All of these happened within a few days after that post I made about Mary. Like, literally... maybe a week. I found out about all the lies, about how my kindness and generosity was used, and about all the cheating that was taking place with my friend Stacy*. Stacy and her boyfriend broke up. She was devastated and said she was willing to do anything to fix it and get back together. What she actually meant was that she was willing to do anything but be honest and stop lying.

    Needless to say, we had a come to Jesus moment when I figured everything out. It was quite intense, emotionally draining, and physically exhausting. Physically exhausting because instead of showing up like it was important, I was angry all day long. Which isn't a normal thing for me. Although, I did find out how much of my mother I had in me... And I am both proud and terrified at the results... All that power and I am just now tapping into it. haha.

    Anyone that thinks that cheating is okay, is so not welcome in my home. I believe in loyalty, monogamy, and just being honest with the person you choose to spend your life with. The only saving grace in that situation is that it was only in the dating phase. There wasn't a marriage or kids involved. 

    I love Stacy. I really do... but she definitely has some growing up to do and really needs to figure out her priorities in life.

    Well, that's all that I am posting for tonight. Hopefully there will be more (Positive) things to come in the future!

-Haley

*Names changed for security